How to Stay Holy When You’re Hurny - A Survival Guide for the Grown, Single & Divorced By F.K. Bleu

You’re grown. You’re single. Maybe you’re divorced. And you’re hrny.

Now what?

For years, purity culture made the conversation about sex all-or-nothing. Either you waited until marriage or you were “damaged goods.” But real life is more complicated. After a 13-year marriage and a painful divorce, F.K. Bleu found himself wrestling with desire, faith, dating apps, prn, knk, loneliness, and the endless cycle of shame and resets.

This 70-page guide is not a lecture—it’s an honest, vulnerable, and practical survival manual for anyone caught in the tension of wanting to honor their values while living in a very human body.

Inside, you’ll find:

• A raw personal story of navigating faith, divorce, and desire.
• Two clear “lanes” for living aligned: abstinence or slow intimacy.
• Real talk about prn, knk, neurodivergence, and hypersxuality.
• Practical toolboxes (worksheets, frameworks, affirmations, and prayers).
• Grace-centered strategies for boundaries, repair, and rebuilding.

This book won’t give you pat answers. But it will give you permission to be honest, to build boundaries you can actually keep, and to walk your lane with peace—even when desire is loud.

If you’ve ever left a church service deleting dating apps in the parking lot, this book is for you.

You’re not broken. You’re not alone. You are loved.